The heartbroken community of Trehafod in Rhondda Cynon Taf is grappling with the devastating news of the passing of 22-year-old Kian Parmee, who died while in custody at HMP Swansea on the 18th of July, 2025. The sudden and tragic nature of his death has left his family and friends reeling in shock, sorrow, and unanswered questions.
Kian Parmee, remembered by those who knew him best as a “kind, loving, thoughtful young man who touched so many lives”, was in the early years of adulthood, a time when many begin to find their path, face their struggles, and grow into their futures. Though he was remanded at the time of his death on a charge of stalking without fear, alarm, or distress — a charge confirmed by Merthyr Tydfil Crown Court — Kian’s family insists that this should not define the young man he was or the memories he leaves behind.
He was more than the circumstances surrounding his final days. To his loved ones, Kian was a brother, a son, a grandson, and a loyal friend with a warm heart and an infectious sense of humor. He had a gentle spirit, always willing to help others even while navigating his own challenges. Those who knew him recall a young man who loved music, made others laugh effortlessly, and cared deeply about the people in his life.
His death behind bars has sparked grief and deep concern from his family, who are calling for answers and accountability. The loss of someone so young and so full of potential, under the care of the state, raises difficult and painful questions. A statement from the family expressed their anguish:
“We are devastated. Kian had his struggles, but he did not deserve to die. He was a beautiful soul who brought light into the lives of everyone who knew him. We are left with broken hearts and more questions than answers.”
The family’s pain is echoed throughout the close-knit community of Trehafod, where neighbors and friends have rallied together to support Kian’s loved ones. Messages of condolences, tributes, and floral memorials have appeared across social media and local gathering spaces, as people try to come to terms with the senselessness of the loss.
Several community members have voiced their concerns about the conditions at HMP Swansea, which in recent years has faced scrutiny over inmate safety, overcrowding, and mental health support. Kian’s death adds to a worrying pattern of young people dying in custody, raising urgent questions about the system’s ability to protect and rehabilitate those in its care.
An official investigation into the circumstances of Kian’s death is now underway. The prison service, in line with protocol, has referred the case to the Prisons and Probation Ombudsman. Kian’s family is determined to seek transparency and justice, not only for their own peace of mind but to prevent similar tragedies from happening to others.
In the words of a family friend: “Kian’s life mattered. His story should not be swept under the rug. We must honour his memory by demanding answers and standing up for change.”
As the family prepares to lay their beloved Kian to rest, they are holding onto the love he gave, the laughter he shared, and the memory of a young man whose life, though brief, was deeply meaningful. A life that should have continued beyond walls and bars. A life that mattered.
Rest in peace, Kian Parmee. You are gone, but never forgotten.
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