With Deepest Sorrow: Remembering Dale and Paula Shulfer

With Deepest Sorrow: Remembering Dale and Paula Shulfer

It is with profound sorrow and broken hearts that we share the unexpected and devastating news of the passing of Dale and Paula Shulfer, a beloved husband and wife whose lives were tragically cut short on Monday, July 7, 2025. Dale was 53 years old, and Paula was 52. Their sudden and untimely departure has left an unfillable void in the lives of all who knew and loved them — their family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, and community.

Dale and Paula were not only inseparable in life but also in the love they shared for over three decades. Their marriage was a true testament to enduring commitment, mutual respect, laughter, and unconditional support. Together, they built a home full of warmth and care — a place where everyone felt welcome and where love was always abundant.

Dale Shulfer — A Steady Soul with a Gentle Heart

Dale was known for his calm demeanor, quick wit, and hardworking spirit. He worked for over 25 years as a skilled technician and was deeply respected by his peers for his reliability and vast knowledge. He had a passion for problem-solving and took pride in doing every job with excellence.

Away from work, Dale loved the outdoors — whether he was fishing at a quiet lake, working in the garden, or grilling on the weekends. He was a loyal friend, a supportive father, and a steady hand in times of trouble. People gravitated toward him for advice, a laugh, or simply his comforting presence. He had a quiet strength that spoke volumes without needing many words.

Paula Shulfer — A Loving Heart and a Bright Light

Paula was a vibrant soul, full of energy, creativity, and compassion. She had a career in education and advocacy, where she poured her heart into uplifting others — especially children and families in need. Her kind words and open heart touched countless lives over the years.

Paula had a gift for making every holiday magical, every gathering feel like a celebration, and every person feel special. Her home was filled with the scent of homemade cookies, the sounds of laughter, and an atmosphere of love. Whether volunteering in her community, hosting family dinners, or writing cards with thoughtful messages, Paula lived a life of selfless service and authentic kindness.

A Shared Legacy

Together, Dale and Paula were a model of unity and devotion. They supported each other’s dreams, stood hand-in-hand through life’s challenges, and found joy in the simple things: quiet evenings, road trips, music, and time with loved ones. Their bond was unbreakable — the kind of love story that leaves a lasting imprint on all who witness it.

They were proud parents and even prouder grandparents. Their children and grandchildren were the center of their world. Dale and Paula celebrated every milestone, every birthday, every little win — always with joy, always together. Their legacy lives on through their family, in the values they passed down, and in the memories they created.

A Community in Mourning

The loss of Dale and Paula Shulfer has sent shockwaves through their community. Words cannot adequately capture the depth of grief felt by those who were blessed to know them. Their warmth, generosity, and love will be sorely missed but forever remembered. Their passing is not only a personal loss to their family but a shared tragedy for all who called them friends.

In this time of unimaginable sorrow, we ask for prayers, love, and support for their children, grandchildren, extended family, and close friends. While the pain is deep, may we find solace in the memories they gave us and the lives they touched.

Honoring Their Memory

A joint memorial service to celebrate Dale and Paula’s lives will be held in the coming days. Details will be shared with family and friends once arrangements are finalized. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to a local charity supporting families in crisis — a cause that Paula deeply believed in — or to an environmental nonprofit in honor of Dale’s love for nature.

Though they are no longer with us in body, Dale and Paula’s love story lives on — in every shared story, every lesson they taught, and every life they brightened. May their memory be a blessing, and may they rest in eternal peace — together, just as they always were.